A Person that Colors my Life *友谊*

Friend is nonetheless the most important person that plays a crucial role in shaping his counterparts lives since every one of us spend most of our times with friends when being away from home. It doesn’t matter whether he or she will color up your life; the most important thing is we should make sure our friend will do no harm to us. It is particularly important when making friend as the famous Chinese saying quotes “if you befriend with the one who is good in behavior then you will be good as well, however, if you befriend with the one who is bad in behavior then your entire lives will be ruined.”

I feel blessed to have befriended with a close friend few years back when I am still in secondary school- a naïve person I can describe myself. All my thinking were like very “Jurassic” I can say as I didn’t have a facebook account and knew much little about the what so call personal computer. My wearing made me older by 10 years as compared to my counterparts….hihihi … However, after knowing him for few years my lifestyle have experienced significant changes in terms of outlook and also my mindset. Only with such ideology it helps me to continue on my transition from teenage years to adult with all the new and modern ideas come into mind and to cope with the fast changing world and rapid globalization. I remember we both thought of entering the local universities by all means. We spent our time discussing about the minimum criteria and the prelim of entering the courses we intended to take up for undergraduate studies…and at the same time we shared our invaluable experience of being called up for interview… it was very interesting and worth pondering on it… hahahaha…

Soon one year has passed and we continue on our respective route of ‘dream’ at the local university and hope so with the blessing from God we will be able to further our studies to overseas to seek the new experience, greener pasture, the new aroma, the new culture, the new lives, the new second half that are destined to us in the all new land. Hahahaha…

Therefore, befriending a friend is very crucial in shaping one’s lives as he or she will color up your entire life. If we happen to befriend with a person with a total different behavior as discussed I think we sure have taken the wrong prescription which will ruin and wreck our whole lives. These kinds of friend will only approach you when they need you to do some favors for them and soon after we will lost contact and every day we greet each other as if the mere superficial friend…

So, it is particularly important when embarking on a journey of making friends. Making more friends does not means that your social interaction is healthy as making more friends will cause one more trouble I can say… Based on my experience having a few close friend is important as we will mutually respect and care for each other during interaction and no harms is intended during the whole course of discussion—and moreover in the end a mutual understanding is developed. Having such kind of interaction will make us seek some useful and constructive advice to solve the problems we faced along the trails.

It is important to choose a person that will color up your lives, isn’t it?

*It does not purposely compose with the intention to criticize a particular group or a person with sarcasm but it is based on the true example of the importance of choosing right friends that will color up your lives. Hope dear readers will gain some useful and inspirational information from the posting… Any dishearten feeling caused are highly regretted… Do enjoy your time reading and pondering on the posting and any comments are highly welcomed.*